Bob,
You have preached the following: 1) Not to play "whatever Hollywood throws at you", 2) "inspirational, classic, foreign and independent", I believe you referenced English speaking non-American films once 3)"as well as an occasional strong move over".
If I had operated a single screen in a typical small Iowa town, would have encouraged the following: Happy Feet, Night at the Museum, Santa Clause 3, Open Season, Cars, Ice Age 2, Over The Hedge, Eight Below, Flushed Away, Invincible, We are Marshall, Glory Road, Flicka, & Lake House. (all of these were "g" or "pg". But those were all 2500+ loactions which would qualify as "whatever Hollywood throws at you" in my mind.
As far the titles you would recommend I can't see many: One Night with the King & Facing The Giants (which I played both).