Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't the R-rated policy to admit younger people with their parent/guardian? What happens if a parent comes in with a group of young people and says they have permission? We've been allowing them in at that point. Do you? Should you?
Do you? No, I do not. Should you? No, you should not.
I have one of the 1 sheet size Tommy Teenager ratings posters that I got from NATO that I always display next to the box office on R rated movies. It shows a photo drivers license on it and says: Show us your picture and we'll show you ours. It then says: Under 17 must be accompanied by a parent or guardian at least 21 years of age. It also states that everyone under the age of 25 must show ID. I also limit no more than 4 under age people per adult guardian.
If you follow the rating system as written you are not supposed to admit anyone underage with verbal permission from an adult or parent.
I know that many will argue that it's not our place to decide what films other peoples kids can or can not see, but we're not deciding what they can see, but rather the conditions under which they can see them. We have that right, and we have that responsibility. I don't care what arguement anyone gives, if you don't inforce the rating system... there is only one reason you don't... MONEY. You feel that by allowing underage people in on restricted movies it will make you more money. In the short term, yes. In the long term, no. One thing that newbees, and that's people that have been in the business for 10 years or less, take a long time to learn is that REPUTATION is EVERYTHING!
As you build your business, the community becomes more aware over time what your commitment to the community is, and while there are always those that don't follow the norm, the majority does and will support you for it. I've taken considerable grief over the years from a few that do not represent the community norm, but the majority have always come to my support. The proof is that my business improves every single year. If people didn't agree with my policies, that wouldn't be the case. I have recieved awards from the PTA, various service organizations, and the town itself for my commitment to the community. Hundreds and hundreds of people over the years have made it a point to come up to me and thank me for enforcing the rating system, while maybe a few dozen have condemed me for it.
Maybe in a large city, it doesn't mean much, but in a small town, it can be the difference between success or failure.