We play it differently for each movie. Some movies we place stricter restrictions on, as in ABSOLUTELY NO ONE UNDER 17, PARENT OR NO PARENT. We once had a parent demand to bring his 13 year old in to see a movie we had restricted, and I explained that this is a private business, and we can refuse service to anyone. Tough crap. Was he mad, yes. But if I'm going to bring some of these hard R movies to my little town, I'm going to be strict about them. With other R movies, we loosen restrictions. It's a judgement call. Most parents appreciate it, and we even have them calling us now before hand to ask if it's a hard R before they'll drop little Johnny off. I sure wish they'd start using NC-17 ratings. I would still bring them, but I wouldn't have to explain myself so often.