You'll find that thread here:
http://www.bigscreenbiz.com/ubb/Forum39/HTML/000104.html
As Jimor says, cleaning a screen is not for the faint of heart. Before you attempt it, be prepared for the cost of replacing the screen. That way, if you do get lucky, you'll have the money saved up for a nice dinner out for you and your friends.
Other than lightly brushing dust off with various soft appliances, there are few stories in the discussion boards where people have been really happy with the results of their work. To start with, you have to do a very even job over the entire surface or it will show... Added to that, there's the very likely possibility that any dirt on the other side of the screen will leach through the perforations and foil your best efforts.
Believe it or not, there are even stories out there about people spray-painting their screens. In situations where you're flat broke, that can be done... but even if you do manage to do an even job of painting it, you'll do a nice job of coating everything behind the screen, too.
New screens aren't really that expensive. If yours isn't extremely large, there are plenty of people who can give you advice on how to hang a new one. Frequently, that turns out to be a far better way to go than trying to clean an old one.